So you want to get your ex boyfriend back, and don't know what to do. Well here are some tips to help you get your relationship back in order.
Get your ex boyfriend back and keep him for good.
-- Examples and sample text messages to send to your ex if you want to get them back. Use these text messages to get your ex boyfriend or ex girlfriend to start thinking about you and second guess their decision to break up with you.
Why texting? Texting is a great way to talk to your ex after the breakup because, for starters, it gives you time to plan your messages and replies. Also, it doesn't seem as desperate or needy as phone calls or in-person encounters. Finally, it doesn't pressure your ex to respond.
Warning! You can't just send these text messages if you're not ready... if your ex isn't in the right frame of mind... you have to do several things first. Go to www.BreakupBrad.com to find out more about this. If you send these texts before you're ready, your ex won't be receptive and it could actually do more damage than good.
What should you NOT text your ex? There's tons of bad things you can text your ex, but the worst is the "Pointless" text, which is boring stuff like "hey" and "whats up". Also, don't bring up any drama or get into arguments... no anger, no conflict, no depression, no emotion... just send your ex positive text messages.
What about some good text messages to send your ex boyfriend or ex girlfriend?
1. "Shared Memory Text" - bring up a positive shared memory that you and your ex enjoyed together.
2. "The Question Text" -- sending a message that asks a question (ideally a question that references a happy memory) to get your ex thinking about you and generate a response from your ex.
3. "The Supportive Text" -- a message that reminds your ex of something you did regularly for your ex during your relationship that your ex really liked and appreciated, ie. helping them study for exams.
Again, don't send these messages until you've built some rapport with your ex so that he or she will be receptive to these texts.
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-- Here are 5 mistakes that will ruin your chances of getting your ex back.
After a breakup, you have to recognize that you're in an emotionally irrational state. That means you may do or say things that you probably wouldn't consider normally. This is a recipe for disaster and you risk pushing your ex further away from you.
Mistake number one is begging and pleading. This will only make your ex feel less attracted to you. You need to do the opposite of this and build attraction.
Mistake number two is getting angry or emotional at your ex. You definitely don't want to be negative with your ex, especially if you want to get your ex back. You need to be coming from a place of positivity.
Mistake number three is telling your ex that you love them and miss them. Even though this might be true, you most definitely do not want to say it as this is extremely unattractive.
Mistake number four is conveying heartbreak, loneliness, and depression. Even though you are heartbroken and sad, displaying these emotions to the world will work against you. Your ex doesn't want to get back together with an emotional wreck, so don't be one.
Lastly, mistake number five -- being friends with your ex! After a relationship, it may seem like a good idea to keep in contact with your ex. A lot of the time, this can be okay -- but not if you want to get your ex back. By being friends with your ex, you're essentially just being his or her "emotional dumping ground". This is no way to build attraction.
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Hi guys, welcome to another video where I’ll be teaching you how to get back together with your ex. I’m Brad Browning, a relationship coach and best-selling author of The Ex Factor Guide. For more advice on reversing your breakup and starting over with your ex, visit my website at www.BreakupBrad.com.
In this video, I’m going to tell you the single most important secret to winning back your ex. If you’re not aware of the important tips I’m going to reveal in the next few minutes, then your chances of saving your relationship will be next to nil. I know this because I’ve watched many of my clients ignore this advice and, predictably, throw away any shot at a second chance with their ex. Don’t do that… just trust that the techniques I’m going to share in this video WILL work, and WILL give you the best possible chance of getting back together.
So, what’s the #1 secret to getting your ex back? What is it that separates those who fail and those who actually do build a new, healthier relationship with their ex?
The secret to winning your ex back is to fundamentally change the way your ex thinks about you and your relationship. To re-wire their brain so that when he or she thinks about you, they think about your positive qualities, how much fun you are, how many great memories you’ve shared, and how great life is when you’re by their side.
This is crucial because right now, if you’ve been dumped or if your ex isn’t interested in giving the relationship another shot, then he or she almost certainly thinks of you in a negative light. Even if your breakup was totally amicable and he or she has told you they still love you, the reality is that your ex just doesn’t think of you as someone they want to be with. If your breakup was ugly or you’ve made a lot of mistakes since the breakup, it’s more likely that he or she sees you as “that desperate loser ex”.
If you want him or her to take you back, then you need to change that… you need to make sure that they think about you in the same way they did when your relationship began, when things were amazing and you were madly in love. If your ex were to feel that way about you again -- if thinking about you brought a smile to their face and sent a surge of attraction through their body -- then he or she wouldn’t even think twice about getting back together!
So, really, the key to winning back your ex is to re-wire their subconscious perception of you. You want them to feel like they NEED you in their life, and stimulate the kind of strong emotions and feelings of attraction that will overpower logic or reasoning. If you do this properly, then all the reasons your ex has given you for the breakup will become meaningless or be forgotten completely. We humans are emotional creatures and we’re slaves to our sexual and emotional desires… so if you can stimulate those feelings in the back of your ex’s mind, then he or she will come crawling back to you asking for another chance.
I know what you’re thinking at this point… you’re thinking, “Brad, what’s with all this psychobabble? How does it actually help me get my ex back?”
That’s a fair question, to be honest… but if you think about it, what most people in your situation do is actually the complete opposite of what I just described. Most people -- and I can’t blame them, because it seems perfectly logical -- try to convince their ex to take them back. They beg, plead, or just generally reach out to their ex and attempt to do things that they think will change their ex’s mind about the breakup.
Unfortunately, this never works. In fact, most of the time, any attempts to talk with your ex after the breakup will harm your chances and drive him or her even further away. Begging, pleading, apologizing, bribing… It is absolutely awful because all it does is re-enforce that image in the back of your ex’s mind - the one that makes them think of you in a negative light, as someone whom they wouldn’t be their romantic partner and isn’t what they want in a boyfriend or girlfriend.
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