What To Text Your Ex Boyfriend To Get Him Back

So you just got out of a relationship, but you ended up regretting it later on. Or maybe you suddenly just missed him and thought that perhaps you could rekindle the flame and get back together.

One way that you could get him back is through text messaging. Sending text messages is a direct yet casual way—read: no strings attached—of reminding him of your existence.

Read this article to know what to text your ex boyfriend to get him back.

Get him back…by not texting him

But how are you going to get him back without having to text him? Maybe he’ll find another girl while you keep quiet, right?

Not really. Not keeping in touch—for a while—can be pretty helpful, especially if you’ve just ended the relationship. During this no-contact period, you’re able to think about and perhaps realize what went wrong during the relationship and still be allowed to remember the happy times you both spent.

The no-contact period can last for about two weeks, after which you can then proceed with the next chunk of text messages, which begins with the…

“Hey, I remembered you!” messages

Once you’re ready to text him without being too emotional, then you can go ahead and text him these messages.

“My boss made me a part of the office basketball team. Hope he doesn’t find out about the time I whacked someone’s head with the ball and we had to run out quickly to avoid getting caught.”

“Just had those amazing burgers at the mall. They’re still as good as when we had them.”

Keep your messages short and simple. You wouldn’t want to babble too much. All you want is for him to remember you and the fun moments you spent together. You wouldn’t want him to associate you with awful situations, would you? So upon reestablishing contact, you’d better stick with these first.

Casual Conversations

“I miss you.”

“I still love you. Xoxo”

Stop. The last thing you want to do is to bombard him with those messages. Again, you wish to bring out pleasant memories. You wouldn’t want to appear as this needy girl who can’t live her life without a guy, or in this particular case, him.

Go for casual conversations—nothing too personal. You may want to try:

“How’d your sister survive her first day of work?

“I finally read the book that you recommended. You’re right. It was an eye-opener.”

See the difference? These two messages initiate conversation, but they don’t bring up emotions that one or both of you aren’t ready to discuss yet.

“Want to hang out (as friends)?”

This could come as a deal breaker or anxiety-inducing moment for some, but if you’re ready, then you can go for it. These messages are about asking him out, but not really asking him out.

“I heard Coldplay’s having another concert. Wanna go? I know how much you love them too.”

“Hey, I’ve gotta go. Got a meeting to attend. Want to have coffee at the end of the week? We could catch up more then!”

Make sure your tone is light; again, all you want is to make him smile and not cringe at the idea of meeting up with you. All you’re after is to meet up with him and to catch up on the times you’re not together.

Be your best

Usually, the message would be about being yourself, but in this case, be your best instead. Sending these messages unfortunately can’t guarantee that you’ll get back together, but if he sees how awesome you still are even after the breakup, then perhaps he’ll want you back.

Of course, still remember that with or without him, you’re a fantastic individual, and that having him is just a choice you choose to make.

Good luck!

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